一个瘦弱又懂事的女孩和一个不负责任的男子离婚了。那年离婚只有二十几。曾经那女孩是个单纯，彬彬有礼又那么讨人喜欢。而现在的她变得懂事多了，把两位孩子照顾的微不足道。她应该经历了不少。。。
曾经拥有的快乐，疯狂，甜蜜的日子且换来的是辛酸，痛苦，满满的顾虑。为何一个男人可以许下他的承诺让她嫁入他豪门，如今的他变得一点都不削？难道他已忘了这一切？怜惜的不是他，而是她。
真的替她可惜，还有她俩儿子。她不应该是经历这人生大事，坏的那一面。
人生就有那么多的起伏，往往原由来自<选择>.
Friday, May 14, 2010
Wednesday, May 5, 2010
Counting down for my best buddy's wedding.. That's part of my life
Time passed faster than what we have predicted and seems like everyone is getting married in this age. Where is my dream guy though?
You will never know we were having bed talk during our college and university life... Talk about our dream guy, our career, our family and so on.....
In the end of 2009, my first college buddy got her meaningful moment in her life. She and her husband were holding each other hands and walked through the red carpet with a lot of applause, wishes and congratulation. How nice and gorgeous of her with her wedding dress. At that moment, I felt like losing one of my "god-sister" but happy for her - finally she found her dream guy! :)
Early 2010, I received her call again with a lot of expectation... like announcing she is pregnant? announcing she has moved into a new house? announcing she got a fantastic job after married. But all are gone and once again make me felt sad when she told me this, "Hi Jess, how do you do? I just got my visa today (If not mistaken, that was a Tuesday) and I will fly to UK with my husband by this weekend." My tears rolling in my eyes and i hold tight my cellphone. Suddenly, I'm speechless again. Just keep asking, how can I meet her and farewell with her together with our buddy gang. End up, I stayed in KL and unable fly to Singapore just to shake her hand, give her my warmest hug and say goodbye. Well, we still keeping in touch till today as she is moving into a new house at UK and welcoming us to visit her by next year... Seems like going to save more money and look forward to. Nikki, I will miss you always!
Just finish one of my buddy's wedding, 2 words can describe - tired and exhausted =.= but fun and enjoy to meet up old friends and gathering. This coming 29 May 2010, my ex-roomate cum ex-classmate cum ex-group assignment team members for almost every single projects in my college and university. Her love story started during our 2nd year in UTAR. We name his husband as "Giraffe" as he was working at a toy shop that time. As this lovely buddy with her strong determination, finally they were together. We are so glad as we again "SOLD OUT" one of our sisters. :p Today, she will become a "tai-tai" with a simple life and being a pretty and capable housewife. Such a new life that every woman are looking forward.
I wish my this 2 buddies will have a fruitful new page of life and always happiness.
Saturday, March 28, 2009
Wednesday, December 31, 2008
跨年.2009.
最近都忙得很，才发现好久没写部落格咯！！所以决定了，就在崭新的一年写下第一章跨年部落格，分享我在倒数的心声。
不知道你在12月31日，11:30pm-11:55pm 的那一刻正想着什么？
而我，正回想在2008里我所实现的、未实现的；达成的、未达成的；做错的事、好事等等。。。一一在我脑海浮现出来。 人家说，天蝎座的女生是神秘，个性细腻，对微不足道的小事都非常敏感，性格内向，对自身的一切总是带着疑问。我完全赞同！跟我一起倒数的朋友，你们不知道我在想什么吧？不重要，这本来就是天蝎的本性。质疑...
在2008，我的确经历了无数的考验、挫折。相反的，我也获得许多的好评、奖赏。尽管在事业上，我都达成了我所许下的承诺。当然，是我的运气好，机会多。谢谢我的贵人们！
入行以有一年半，我完全没信任过我自己，没看好我的能力；可是，我相信我的坚持是对的。曾经有不愉快地时候，也掉下不开心的眼泪。这些都不是因为公司政治问题，而是觉得这份工作太累了，我的身体不能接受。一旦身体状况不好，什么事都会不顺利，心情也变得烦躁起来。那时的我，真的一度想放弃。身边的朋友也会一直听到我想辞职，不干了! 这是我不对的想法。
可是，一想到那些帮助我的人，就有点愧疚，对不起他们。也因三番五次的挣扎，让我下定决心熬过丛丛难关。有时我在想，为什么总是为他人着想，也应该为自己打算吧？可是，我就是过不了自己那关，心里总会不安。所以，都会试着去摆平，把大部分的快乐带给大家；小部分的快乐给自己就够了。这是我执着的地方。
长大了，工作了，朋友也慢慢变少；好多都失去联络或是距离遥远。就算联络，也就是在网上聊了几句。可能是自己不会分配时间。以前的我认为先事业为重，可以牺牲朋友/家人的聚会而工作。现在我知道工作都不代表什么了，它只是一门赚钱的管道。这就是我遗憾的一点。
所以在迎接2009的到来，我为自己许下一个新的目标，那就是：“健康为一，家人/朋友为二，事业为三。”当然，我也希望能实现我一直追求着的一样东西。。。
新年快乐！朋友们，希望你们的梦想也一一地实现。最重要还是~身体健康~
最后，献上当晚在The Curve倒数的烟花表演。期盼今年大家过得很好，就像烟花般的灿烂！
Monday, September 1, 2008
My Merdeka day 2008
It was fun with a lot of activities during merdeka day! But, I need to work on that day.
I was handling a Merdeka Millenium Endurance race started from Aug 29 till Aug 30 midnight, which was passing Aug 31. It is a 12-hours race and my client participated in the race as well.
At the same time, I felt so sorry to my buddy, which his graduation day on Aug 30. Before that I told him, no matter how I will make myself available to attend. But the end, it made him dissappointed! Im so sorry, Wei Xuan. As they mentioned to me, we would be going to Genting at night after my work. So touch!! No matter how, I have to make myself to go with my tiring body and mind.
I went to Sepang to send off the drivers as the race started on 11am. After sent off, I rush back to meet my buddies from Malacca, who attended his convocation. I met them and we went to his house at the evening as promised, we had our dinner together at TGI Friday's. After rushing had the dinner with them, I need to rush back to Sepang as the race would be finished at 11:45pm, Aug 30.
At 9.30pm, my boss, client and me reached Sepang to prepare post-race statement to issue to the media. Time past 12.00am, we gone back after issued the statement. It was already 1.30am.
I rushed all the way back to PJ to meet them and went to Genting straight. When reach Genting, it was already 3.30am. My eyes getting heavier! They went in to gamble and we just as the supportive team to support those gamble. Haha...memorable....
About 6.15am, we back Setapak from Genting and reached by 7am. Then, we had our breakfast, which I long time never been the pasar at Genting Kelang. Missed the food so much!! After our breakfast, I fetch them back and i drive back with a tired and dry eyes.
Reach home about 9:00am, I straight away slept till 5:00pm. I was thinking my merdeka activities already done, but no!I just realised my cousin called and asked whether I'm going for a church activity. She hoped I can go. By using half an hour, I rushed to meet her and enjoy the night.
Luckily Monday (Sept 1) we had off day. If not, I couldn't imagine myself......@_@
I was handling a Merdeka Millenium Endurance race started from Aug 29 till Aug 30 midnight, which was passing Aug 31. It is a 12-hours race and my client participated in the race as well.
At the same time, I felt so sorry to my buddy, which his graduation day on Aug 30. Before that I told him, no matter how I will make myself available to attend. But the end, it made him dissappointed! Im so sorry, Wei Xuan. As they mentioned to me, we would be going to Genting at night after my work. So touch!! No matter how, I have to make myself to go with my tiring body and mind.
I went to Sepang to send off the drivers as the race started on 11am. After sent off, I rush back to meet my buddies from Malacca, who attended his convocation. I met them and we went to his house at the evening as promised, we had our dinner together at TGI Friday's. After rushing had the dinner with them, I need to rush back to Sepang as the race would be finished at 11:45pm, Aug 30.
At 9.30pm, my boss, client and me reached Sepang to prepare post-race statement to issue to the media. Time past 12.00am, we gone back after issued the statement. It was already 1.30am.
I rushed all the way back to PJ to meet them and went to Genting straight. When reach Genting, it was already 3.30am. My eyes getting heavier! They went in to gamble and we just as the supportive team to support those gamble. Haha...memorable....
About 6.15am, we back Setapak from Genting and reached by 7am. Then, we had our breakfast, which I long time never been the pasar at Genting Kelang. Missed the food so much!! After our breakfast, I fetch them back and i drive back with a tired and dry eyes.
Reach home about 9:00am, I straight away slept till 5:00pm. I was thinking my merdeka activities already done, but no!I just realised my cousin called and asked whether I'm going for a church activity. She hoped I can go. By using half an hour, I rushed to meet her and enjoy the night.
Luckily Monday (Sept 1) we had off day. If not, I couldn't imagine myself......@_@
Tuesday, August 12, 2008
现在的我觉得。。。
不知从何时开始，我变得孤独作战。曾经有一班死党的陪伴，一起讨论，一起解决，一起欢乐，一起伤脑筋。。。很多的回忆，让我回味无穷。每当我一个人在外头拼命，我的脑海里就出现你们的脸孔，想着想着。。。就告诉自己，有你们陪伴真好！！
现在的我，烦恼时不知向谁诉说、开心的事不知找谁分享。忽然我的生活环境变得好陌生，让我认不清自己。
曾经有人告诉我：“你不会孤单，你还有我啊。”听了顿时好开心，就觉得还好，还有这样一位朋友在我身边。可是，我们好难聚在一起。毕竟大家有事要忙，加上距离让我们很难相聚。
工作压力，朋友不在身边。。。觉得自己即将要变成废人。以前读书的日子，每天都盼着周末或假日的到来，一大班出去玩。现在，好害怕周末的到来。因为就无所事事待在家。生活让我觉得没什么意义了。
是我已经成长，还是怀念着过去。我也不晓得。希望有更好的明天
现在的我，烦恼时不知向谁诉说、开心的事不知找谁分享。忽然我的生活环境变得好陌生，让我认不清自己。
曾经有人告诉我：“你不会孤单，你还有我啊。”听了顿时好开心，就觉得还好，还有这样一位朋友在我身边。可是，我们好难聚在一起。毕竟大家有事要忙，加上距离让我们很难相聚。
工作压力，朋友不在身边。。。觉得自己即将要变成废人。以前读书的日子，每天都盼着周末或假日的到来，一大班出去玩。现在，好害怕周末的到来。因为就无所事事待在家。生活让我觉得没什么意义了。
是我已经成长，还是怀念着过去。我也不晓得。希望有更好的明天
Friday, July 18, 2008
Zang Toi's Fashion Show @ Istana Hotel, 18 July 2008
Is a fun girls day out with my lovely colleagues...
My boss spend 5 of us to go and watch the Zang Toi's Fashion show. This day is Thursday...The fashion show is held on 7:30pm. At KL, there is so hard to get a parking, so we carpool to the venue.
Early the morning, we all meet at our colleague's house-->Sabrina, her house just opposite my house. :p Then, we take one car to go office. That day, is the first day we really girls day out. On our way to office, we keep laughing and talk non-stop in the car. Really fun and enjoy!
Reached office, all of us settle our things before lunch. Because our boss have make an appointment with her hair saloon, which my boss ask us to go that hair saloon to wash and blow our hair. And she passed us her house key to let us go and dress up ourselves. My boss really treat us so nice, spend us the tickets and think of place for us to prepare.
We do our hair till 5:30pm and rush to my boss house to dress up and make up.Only half an hour, we are done! Then go back office to lock up and straight away go to the hotel.
The fashion show is only takes half an hour, but we use like whole day to dress up! haha...But, all of us are so fun and looks nice on that night.
Here are some photos to share with you. Enjoy ya.... :)
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